The Complete Guide to Baby Teething: Symptoms, Safe Remedies, and When to Call a Pediatrician

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Teething

Quick Answer: Teething (daant aana) typically starts between 4-7 months, with the bottom front teeth appearing first. Common signs include excessive drooling, gum rubbing, irritability, and mild fever (under 100.4°F). Safe remedies include chilled teethers, gum massage, and teething toys. Avoid teething gels with benzocaine and amber necklaces. If fever exceeds 101°F or baby has diarrhea, it’s likely NOT teething - see your pediatrician!

⚠️ In a baby under 3 months, ANY fever of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher is a medical emergency — see a doctor the same day, even at night. Do not give paracetamol and wait. This applies even after a vaccine. Teething does not cause fever at this age.


When Does Teething Start?

Most babies begin teething between 4 and 7 months of age, but every baby is different! Some babies are born with teeth, while others don’t get their first tooth until after their first birthday.

Teething Timeline

Age Teeth Common Names
6-10 months Bottom front 2 teeth Lower central incisors
8-12 months Top front 2 teeth Upper central incisors
9-13 months Top side teeth Upper lateral incisors
10-16 months Bottom side teeth Lower lateral incisors
13-19 months First molars Back teeth
16-23 months Canines Pointed teeth
23-33 months Second molars Back molars

Reassurance: If your baby’s teeth come in a different order or timing, that’s usually perfectly normal! By age 3, most children have all 20 baby teeth.


Signs and Symptoms of Teething

Common Teething Symptoms

Symptom What You’ll See
Excessive drooling Soaking through bibs, drool rash on chin
Gum rubbing/biting Baby puts everything in mouth
Swollen, tender gums Red or puffy gums where tooth is coming
Irritability Fussier than usual, especially evenings
Sleep disturbances Waking more at night
Ear pulling Referred pain from gums
Decreased appetite Discomfort while feeding
Low-grade fever Up to 100.4°F (38°C) - NOT high fever

What is NOT Caused by Teething

Many parents attribute these symptoms to teething, but they’re usually caused by something else:

  • ❌ High fever (above 101°F)
  • ❌ Diarrhea or loose stools
  • ❌ Vomiting
  • ❌ Severe rash
  • ❌ Cough or congestion
  • ❌ Loss of appetite for more than a few days

Important: If your baby has these symptoms, see a doctor. Don’t assume it’s “just teething”!


Safe Teething Remedies

Method How to Use Why It Helps
Chilled teether Refrigerate (not freeze), give to baby Cold numbs gums
Clean, wet washcloth Chill and let baby chew Texture soothes gums
Gum massage Rub gums with clean finger Pressure relieves pain
Teething toys BPA-free, solid toys Chewing provides relief
Cold spoon Chill a metal spoon; parent-held only, do not let baby chew it unsupervised Cold soothes inflammation
Chilled fruits In mesh feeder (6+ months) Safe way to get cold on gums

For Severe Discomfort

If baby is very uncomfortable:

  • Infant paracetamol (Calpol) - Follow the weight-based dose your pediatrician gives you
  • Infant ibuprofen - For babies 6+ months only. Do not give ibuprofen if your baby is dehydrated, vomiting, or has a suspected dengue or viral fever — use paracetamol and see a doctor.

Note: Always consult your pediatrician before giving any medication.


What to AVOID

Dangerous Teething Products

Product Why It’s Dangerous
OTC teething gels with benzocaine Can cause a serious blood disorder (methemoglobinemia)
OTC anaesthetic teething gels (lidocaine or choline-salicylate) — sold over the counter at Indian chemists The same FDA/WHO caution applies to all OTC anaesthetic teething gels, not only benzocaine. Lidocaine can be absorbed and cause harm; choline-salicylate is a salicylate (aspirin-family) and is not advised for babies. Do not use without a doctor’s advice
Homeopathic teething tablets FDA warnings about inconsistent ingredients
Honey or jaggery rubbed on gums Honey can cause infant botulism in babies under 1 year — give nothing on the gums by mouth except what your pediatrician advises
Amber teething necklaces Choking and strangulation hazard
Frozen teethers Too hard, can hurt gums
Teething biscuits Choking risk, sugar content

Also Avoid

  • Rubbing alcohol, whiskey or any spirit on gums
  • Honey or jaggery on the gums (botulism risk under 1 year)
  • Traditional gum-rubbing remedies and applying kajal — widely used but with no proven benefit; discuss with your pediatrician before using anything
  • Aspirin or adult pain medications
  • Tying anything around baby’s neck (amber/black-thread necklaces included)
  • Leaving baby unsupervised with teethers

Caring for New Teeth

Start Cleaning Early

Age What to Use How Often
Before teeth Damp cloth on gums After feeds
First tooth (~6 months) Soft baby toothbrush + a smear/rice-grain (about 0.125 g) of fluoride toothpaste (1000 ppm) Twice daily
3+ years Pea-sized fluoride toothpaste Twice daily

Note on fluoride: Current AAP/ADA/AAPD guidance — and the Indian Society of Pedodontics/IAP — recommend starting a smear/rice-grain amount of fluoride toothpaste from the first tooth (around 6 months), not at 12 months. Starting earlier helps prevent early-childhood tooth decay. Wipe away excess and supervise brushing.

Preventing Baby Bottle Tooth Decay

  • Don’t put baby to bed with bottle
  • No juice in bottles
  • Wean from bottle by 12-14 months
  • No sharing spoons (to prevent bacteria transfer)

When to See a Doctor

Call Your Pediatrician If:

  • Fever above 101°F (38.3°C)
  • Diarrhea lasting more than a day
  • Rash on body (not just drool rash)
  • Baby refusing all feeds
  • Excessive crying that won’t stop
  • Bleeding gums
  • No teeth by 15 months

Get Same-Day / Emergency Care If:

These are not teething and need urgent review — go to the nearest hospital or call 112 (national emergency) or 108 (ambulance) if your baby has:

  • A persistent high fever, or any fever of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher in a baby under 3 months
  • Unusual drowsiness, floppiness, or is difficult to wake
  • Refusing all feeds with fewer wet nappies than usual (signs of dehydration)
  • A fit/seizure, or becomes pale, grey or blue
  • Difficulty or noisy breathing

Teething and Sleep

Teething can disrupt sleep, but there are ways to help:

Tips for Better Sleep During Teething

  • Offer teether before bed - Relieves pressure before sleep
  • Pain relief at bedtime - If needed, give paracetamol
  • Extra comfort - More cuddles and soothing
  • Cool washcloth - Let baby chew before putting down
  • Maintain routine - Keep bedtime routine consistent

Reassurance: Sleep disruptions from teething are temporary. Usually just a few nights per tooth.


Teething Myths Debunked

Myth Truth
“Teething causes high fever” Teething only causes low-grade fever (under 100.4°F)
“Teething causes diarrhea” No scientific link - likely coincides with putting things in mouth
“Amber necklaces relieve teething” No evidence, and they’re a safety hazard
“Rubbing whiskey on gums helps” Dangerous! Alcohol is harmful to babies
“Drooling means teeth are coming immediately” Babies drool for months before teeth appear

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: My baby is 4 months old and drooling a lot. Is teething starting?

A: Possibly, but increased drooling around 3-4 months is also normal development as salivary glands mature. Teeth may not appear for several more months.

Q: Can teething cause ear infections?

A: No, but the pain from teething can cause ear pulling, making parents think it’s an ear infection. If baby has fever or seems very unwell, check for infection.

Q: My baby has no teeth at 10 months. Should I worry?

A: Usually not! Isolated late teething (up to 15 months) is usually benign and runs in families. If there are still no teeth by 15 months, consult your pediatrician or dentist.

Q: Is it normal for baby to get teeth out of order?

A: Yes! While there’s a typical pattern, many babies get teeth in different orders. This doesn’t indicate any problem.

Q: How can I tell if my baby is teething or sick?

A: Teething: Low fever (under 100.4°F), localized to gums, baby can still be consoled. Sick: Higher fever, other symptoms like cough/vomiting/diarrhea, generally unwell.


Key Takeaways

  • Teething starts around 4-7 months - but timing varies widely
  • Drooling, fussiness, and gum swelling are normal teething signs
  • High fever and diarrhea are NOT from teething - see a doctor
  • Use safe remedies - chilled teethers, gum massage, infant paracetamol if needed
  • Avoid dangerous products - teething gels with benzocaine, amber necklaces
  • Start dental care early - clean gums before teeth, brush from first tooth
  • Sleep disruption is temporary - usually a few nights per tooth

This article was reviewed by Babynama Pediatricians. Last updated: January 2026


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This article is general information for Indian parents, not a substitute for examination by your pediatrician. In an emergency, call 112 or 108.

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