Understanding Your Child's Listening & Speech Milestones
Quick Answer: Is This Normal?
Every child develops speech at their own pace, but there are general milestones to watch for. Most babies say their first word around 12 months, but some start earlier and some later. If your bachcha is making progress and engaging with sounds, they're likely on track. This guide will help you understand what to expect and when to seek help.
Why Speech Development Matters
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Language is how children:
Connect with family and friends
Express needs and feelings
Learn about the world
Develop thinking skills
Succeed in school
Understanding milestones helps you support your child and catch any delays early - when intervention is most effective!
Speech & Hearing Milestones by Age
Newborn to 3 Months
Hearing & Understanding:
Startles at loud sounds
Quiets or smiles when you talk
Recognizes your voice
Turns toward sounds
Communication:
Cries differently for different needs
Coos and makes pleasure sounds ("ooh", "aah")
Smiles at people
What You Can Do:
Talk to baby during daily activities
Sing songs and lullabies
Respond to coos with words
Read simple board books
4 to 6 Months
Hearing & Understanding:
Moves eyes toward sounds
Responds to changes in your tone
Notices toys that make sounds
Pays attention to music
Communication:
Babbles with different sounds ("ba-ba", "ma-ma")
Giggles and laughs
Makes sounds when happy or upset
Uses voice to express feelings
What You Can Do:
Imitate baby's sounds back to them
Play peek-a-boo (respond to coos)
Name objects as you show them
Sing action songs
7 to 12 Months
Hearing & Understanding:
Turns to look when you call their name
Understands "no" and "bye-bye"
Recognizes common words like "mama", "papa", "doodh"
Follows simple instructions with gestures
Communication:
Babbles in longer strings ("baba-mama-dada")
Uses gestures (pointing, waving)
Tries to imitate words
Says first word around 12 months (mama, papa, etc.)
May have 1-3 words by first birthday
What You Can Do:
Name everything you see
Play naming games
Encourage pointing
Read picture books daily
1 to 2 Years
Hearing & Understanding:
Points to body parts when asked
Follows simple instructions ("give me the ball")
Understands simple questions
Listens to simple stories
Communication:
Says 10-20 words by 18 months
Says 50+ words by 2 years
Starts putting 2 words together ("more milk", "mama come")
Words may not be perfectly clear (normal!)
Asks simple questions
What You Can Do:
Expand on what they say ("Ball?" - "Yes, red ball!")
Read every day - let them point at pictures
Limit screen time
Talk through daily activities
2 to 3 Years
Hearing & Understanding:
Understands two-step instructions ("pick up the toy and give it to papa")
Understands opposites (big/small, hot/cold)
Follows simple stories
Knows names of familiar things
Communication:
Says 200-1000 words
Uses 2-3 word sentences regularly
Can be understood by family most of the time
Asks "what" and "where" questions
Can say name, age, gender
What You Can Do:
Have real conversations
Ask open-ended questions
Read longer stories
Sing nursery rhymes together
3 to 4 Years
Hearing & Understanding:
Understands "who", "what", "where" questions
Follows 3-step instructions
Understands most of what's said at home
Communication:
Speaks in sentences of 4+ words
Talks about activities and experiences
Strangers can understand most of what they say
Uses "I", "you", "we" correctly
Tells simple stories
What You Can Do:
Encourage storytelling
Play pretend games
Explain new words
Have daily chat time
4 to 5 Years
Hearing & Understanding:
Understands most speech
Follows complex instructions
Understands stories with beginning/middle/end
Communication:
Speaks clearly (strangers understand easily)
Uses complex sentences
Can describe how to do things
Tells longer stories
Uses future tense ("I will go")
What You Can Do:
Discuss events and feelings
Play word games
Encourage explaining ideas
Prepare for school learning
When to Worry (Red Flags)
See a specialist if your child:
Age
Warning Signs
6 months
No babbling, doesn't respond to sounds
12 months
No words, doesn't use gestures (wave/point)
18 months
Fewer than 10 words, doesn't understand simple requests
2 years
Fewer than 50 words, no 2-word combinations
3 years
Speech very unclear, can't form sentences
Any age
Loses skills they previously had
Also consult if:
You suspect hearing problems
Child doesn't make eye contact
Child doesn't respond to their name
Speech is significantly different from peers
You have any concerns!
Boosting Speech Development
Everyday Strategies:
Talk, talk, talk: Narrate your day
Listen and respond: Give full attention when child speaks
Expand language: Add words to what they say
Read daily: Even 10 minutes helps!
Limit screens: Real interaction beats TV
Use both languages: If bilingual, use both confidently
Sing songs: Music builds language
Indian Language Tips:
Speaking Hindi/regional language at home is GREAT
Bilingual children may mix languages (normal!)
May take slightly longer to hit milestones (still normal!)
Both languages develop together
Expert Insight: As our pediatricians remind parents: 'Milestones have wide ranges. Focus on progress, not comparison.'
FAQs
Q: My 18-month-old only says 5 words. Should I worry?
A: It depends on other factors. Is she understanding well? Using gestures? Making progress? If she understands language and communicates through pointing/gestures, many children catch up. If you're concerned, a speech evaluation provides peace of mind and early help if needed.
Q: Will screen time delay my child's speech?
A: Excessive screen time (especially under 2) is linked to speech delays. Interactive screen time (video calling grandparents) is better than passive watching. Real human interaction is best for language development. Limit to 1 hour/day after age 2.
Q: My toddler mixes Hindi and English words. Is this a problem?
A: Not at all! This is called "code-switching" and is completely normal for bilingual children. It shows they're learning both languages. They'll sort it out as they grow. Keep using both languages naturally.
Q: Should I correct my toddler's pronunciation?
A: Don't explicitly correct ("No, say it right!"). Instead, model correct speech by repeating correctly: Child: "Look, goggy!" You: "Yes, that's a doggy!" This teaches without discouraging.
Q: My child started talking then stopped. What's happening?
A: Some regression is normal during developmental leaps or stress. However, significant loss of language skills needs immediate evaluation. This is a red flag that warrants a pediatrician visit.
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This article was reviewed by a speech-language pathologist. Last updated: January 2025
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